1:1 mentorship
A sacred space to be held in your grief, your longing, and your aliveness.
You don’t need to explain why your heart feels shattered. Or why seeing a baby bump sends you into a spiral. Or why some days feel full of longing, rage, tenderness, hope, and despair all at once.
If you’re here, you already know.
You’re navigating a grief few people understand. You might be holding the weight of one baby loss or many. You might be deep in the IVF journey, unsure how much longer you can keep going. You might be coping with being childfree, not by choice, or grieving a baby no one knew existed.
You are not broken.
You are not too much.
You are not alone.
Mentorship
This private 1:1 mentorship is for the woman who:
Is a mother-in-waiting and wanting
Has experienced one or multiple baby losses
Is in any stage of the IVF or fertility journey
Has living children but is grieving a sibling loss
Is navigating infertility grief and secondary losses in the form of relationships, careers, body connection or identities
Is coping with being childfree, not by choice and ready to reinvent her life after years of trying
Wants to honor a previous loss that didn't receive the space or ceremony it deserved
Wants to honor a threshold, milestone, a missed due date, a baby loss anniversary or transfer date as the body remembers
Is undergoing any womb related surgery and desires support
Released a pregnancy by choice and is deeply impacted
All identifications from cis, or LGBTQIA+ or as any birthing person seeking a safe, affirming space
a love
letter...
You are not too tender. You are not too angry. You are not too raw.
This container was born because I know how dark this path can feel. I spent years crying into my tea bowl, pushing through jobs, stuffing down my emotions, spiraling at every baby announcement. I know what it means to perform for the world while your inner world is crumbling.
This space is for the woman who wants to be witnessed. The one who doesn’t want to "move on," but wants to move with and tend to her spirit.
Maybe talk therapy has felt flat. Maybe you’re longing for a healing space that speaks the language of your body, your soul, your creativity.
This is a space to cry, to scream, to laugh, to dance, to drink tea.
To remember.To honor your baby.To honor you.I created this for you. And I’ll walk with you.
what you’ll receive:
A safe, sacred container custom-built for your grief expression, nervous system, and spiritual unfolding
4 private 75-minute sessions (virtual or in-person), held bi-weekly
Intuitive, somatic, and creative support to meet you where you are
A follow-up integration session two weeks after the final call
Bonus: Free monthly community grief circle
Bonus: Curated dance playlists for all emotional seasons
Bonus: Guided meditations for grief, grounding, and re-connection
This is for you if...
your heart is heavy with grief and longing.
Maybe you’ve experienced one or multiple baby losses, are walking the often-exhausting path of IVF, or are holding the quiet ache of being childfree, not by choice.
You might be navigating infertility grief, trying to make sense of the secondary losses that come with it: lost friendships, shifting relationships, disconnection from your body, your career, your identity.
Perhaps you’ve never had the chance to properly honor a loss from the past, or you’re carrying the weight of rage, sadness, or numbness with no safe place to lay it down.
You long to feel seen and understood by someone who truly gets it, someone who’s been in the trenches and knows how to hold space without judgment, fix-it energy, or pressure to “move on.”
You’re not looking for a rigid structure. You’re craving a sacred, intuitive space that meets you exactly where you are.
Maybe talk therapy hasn’t worked, and you want something that includes the body, the soul, the ceremony. You’re ready to be witnessed in your grief, to explore ritual and somatic practices that speak the language your heart understands.
You’re tired of spiraling each time your period arrives or another pregnancy announcement pops up. You want to feel whole again.
You want to learn how to expand alongside your grief - to hold more joy, more sadness, more love, more truth, all at once. You want to reconnect with your body, set boundaries that protect your tender heart, and finally be supported in a way that feels real. You want to feel like you belong somewhere. And you do.
how we work together
Each mentorship is intuitively tailored to your unique experience. These are the tools we may draw from, depending on what your heart and body are calling for. Click to read more about each modality in the dropdown menu.
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Grief lives in the body. Through intuitive movement and gentle dance, we give it a way to move, breathe, and shift. You don’t need to “know how”—your body already does. Don’t worry, I’ll be moving with you.
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Together we’ll drink living tea in silence and stillness. This ancient, heart-softening ritual offers a gentle container for your grief to be felt and honored. A sacred pause for your nervous system to settle.
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Gentle grounding meditations followed by reflective writing help bring clarity and compassion to the parts of you that are tender, stuck, or calling for attention. The guided journaling offers prompts tailored to where you are on your path. The writing becomes a mirror, a balm, a place to meet yourself.
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We’ll work with paint, clay, collage, or whatever form calls to you. No pressure to “be creative”—just an invitation to let your hands speak when your voice needs rest.
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Rooted in my background in acting and Meisner training, this unique practice invites you to explore a character, animal, or archetype that carries the energy you’re ready to call back into your life—strength, softness, wisdom, courage.
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For in-person clients participating in the ½ Day Ritual, this is a chance to commune with the land, release your grief to the trees, and dance your sorrow, love, and longing into the soil. Together, on the Earth, you’ll be guided through a ritual that honors where you’ve been, where you’re at, and most importantly where you’re going.
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A private support call to process anything that has arisen during our container together and how to move forward. We’ll review and recap our time together and make sure you feel good about flying the nest.
phenomenal job of creating a safe and sacred space…
…that lends to deep healing. She authentically held honor and reverence for me, my Spirit Baby, as well as the depths of grief and pain that surface for healing. Sitting with Erica is deeply centering and always brings about clarity. My favorite was the dancing! She made me feel so safe to fully sink into my body and release through movement. I didn’t realize how much I had been holding in my body until releasing it dancing with her. She is joyfully embodied and deeply honoring. I could not recommend Erica more!”
— Alexandra Bates
This isn’t a checklist. This isn’t about fixing you.
This is about being seen in the fullness of who you are — even in your most undone moments.
Most support for baby loss, infertility, and childlessness centers around getting to the "other side."
This mentorship is about expanding your capacity to live fully inside the mystery.
To hold grief and beauty.
To laugh after crying.
To rage and then rest.
To express your deepest emotions without being silenced or rushed.
I don’t believe in silver linings. I believe in witnessing. In ritual. In movement. In the village. In showing up again and again for your life, exactly as it is.
And I believe in your wholeness.
Baby or no baby.
investment
*OPTION TO +ADD-ON IN-PERSON RITUAL DAY AT DISCOUNTED RATE
you deserve this
You deserve a space where your grief doesn’t have to make sense. Where you are not asked to get over it. Where you can be held in the totality of your longing, your rage, your sorrow, your hope.
Where you can remember:
You are a mother. You are whole. You are enough.